Deprecated: mysql_connect(): The mysql extension is deprecated and will be removed in the future: use mysqli or PDO instead in L:\Inetpub\Wilmette Library\book-lists\includes\connect.php on line 4

Warning: mysql_connect(): No connection could be made because the target machine actively refused it. in L:\Inetpub\Wilmette Library\book-lists\includes\connect.php on line 4
I cannot connect to the database because: No connection could be made because the target machine actively refused it.